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71% of parents feel more responsible as housing costs push young buyers toward family money

U.S. Bank says 71% of parents feel more responsible for supporting their children financially than parents did in the past, while 68% have already provided or plan to provide help for major milestones like a home purchase. The numbers point to a market distortion that is forcing family balance sheets to fill gaps left by unaffordable housing.

NBBy Nathan BrooksCorrespondent, Business & Corporate
September 21, 2026, 2:16 PM ET
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U.S. Bank's 2026 Wealth Report shows a generational shift in how Americans build wealth, and the housing market sits at the center of it. The bank said Gen Z and Millennials are starting to build wealth earlier than prior generations, leaning on the stock market over homeownership, and turning to social media and AI for financial guidance before meeting an advisor.

Two-thirds of those groups are still starting that journey with a conventional brokerage account, not a crypto wallet, the bank said. Despite nearly half of Gen Z and Millennials saying newer investments like cryptocurrency are appealing, only 12% of Gen Z and 14% of Millennials actually hold it. The report also found that 76% of Gen Z and 79% of Millennials say traditional investing is the best way to achieve long-term financial goals.

The bigger story is the cost of entry into homeownership. Beth Lawlor, president of Private Wealth Management at U.S. Bank, said the survey did not isolate hard numbers on the 'Bank of Mom and Dad,' but the housing math leaves little mystery. She cited median home prices around $430,000 and required incomes of $130,000 to $150,000, against a median household income closer to $85,000.

Lawlor said parents now feel 'guilt' about the economy being handed over to their children. She said the old stigma around a grown child asking for money is fading, replaced by a sense that parents 'got to help them because it is so much harder than it was 30 years ago.'

Ryan Nelson, president of Emerging Affluent Wealth Management, said two-thirds of Millennials and Gen Z are starting their wealth-building journey with a brokerage account rather than a home down payment. He said parents and grandparents are increasingly stepping in on the housing side, helped by older homeowners sitting on refinanced, low-rate mortgages and years of price appreciation.

Lawlor also pointed to her own experience in Maplewood, New Jersey, where a house she and her husband bought for $253,000 in their 20s is now worth $2.1 million. Her point was simple: the house did not change, but the price did.

U.S. Bank's own findings show how much family wealth is being pulled into housing just to keep the ladder standing. When median incomes lag far behind home prices, free enterprise gets replaced by dependence, and the taxpayer is not the only one carrying the burden. Families are.

The market has already voted. Young adults are choosing brokerage accounts, and parents are writing checks because the housing market has made a down payment look less like savings and more like inheritance. Capital rewards clear rules, but when the entry price keeps outrunning wages, the result is not opportunity — it is leverage against the next generation.

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